• FALLing in LOVE & OUT OF IT by: SPELSTER @ 26-01-11 - 08:40:48
Being in Love is an amazing feeling. It is everyone's fantasy to have that special someone in Life !
People fall in Love for a numerous number of reasons & many relations break down because they are all the wrong for being in Love... Some people get into relations because they feel empty or worthless when they are single... Some people get hooked because their friends are in relationships & they feel left out in the game of Love... Some might be repeatedly questioned by family as to when they are settling down... So there is pressure, either direct or indirect, on both men & women to fall in Love !
Nowadays, it is very easy to fall in & out of Love. Often, people mistake Love for Lust. When the lusting is over & done with, people realise that they were never in Love. It is not uncommon to hear couples say that they share a great chemistry & that's the reason why they got together. But relations started on the basis of chemistry & not commitment rarely stand the test of time. A lot of people believe that it's natural to fall out of Love. Although it is common, it is not natural.
However, there are relations that start off on the right note, with the right intentions that run into rough weather. People often make the mistake of promosing the stars to their better half & later back off from fulfilling that promise or completely deny making such promises. This is one of the reasons why people fall out of Love as their expectations have not been met. It also leads to hurt, anger & resentment as your loved one may feel cheated...
Another common complaint among couples is that their partners have changed over the course of the relation. The truth can be that they haven't changed. It's just that people tend to take each other for granted.